DECISIONS

today at pei wei (is it one word? separate? maybe it's "PAY WAY", lol)i had a revelation, sort of.
i noticed that every single piece of clothing, every single high or low light in a girl's hair, every bad haircut on a guy is a DECISION that was made by somebody, and was more than liking influenced by a friend, an idol, or a family member.

therefore, i muse: are we REALLY our own person? are we/can we be the individual that america says you can be? that's the idea, isn't it? try to make yourself into this independent, unrelying person that has all the self-confidence in the world, not to mention not make mistakes (such as spilling one's drink at the dinner table)?

to me, it seems more like an amalgamation of people working on you from the very start.






so there.