that you can be one person one moment and then another the next. i really like some aspects/persona of some people, but then their ugly sides always show and i end up hating them/at least seeing the truth. i have multiple sides too, don't get me wrong. it's always there.
i guess whoever has the best control of their personal sides rise to the top, have the most friends, etc. whoever has no control has nothing. :P
I think it really is a skill to be able to control what people see. Being too emotional only messes things up for you. I think it really matters in relationships between people, be it work or personal. If you're too emotional or too *fickle* with your moods then you become unreliable to those around you.
ReplyDeleteyep. example: kelsie.
ReplyDeletealso, it's CRUCIAL in negotiation. i have this book my mom gave me (which is actually good, regardless of whether she read it or not.) it says things like presentation of oneself is equal in the "weight" of being agreeable, or being tactically proficient.